Roadblock or Fork?

So our family is a little stuck in direction.. or at least I feel we're stuck.  We've been talking about moving to Oregon for a long time, but the problem is getting a job out there.  This is something we count on my husband for. As an Air National Guard member, he has a better chance of getting a job than I. However, the Oregon National Guard hardly hires out-of-staters.  Now other possibilities include other states.. or the hubby as talked about being a police officer as well. The main point is.. we want out of Iowa.. we want a new adventure. He is not so happy with his day job and I no longer have a day job.  We are broke and have a little girl to think about plus we want another baby. Now all I have to do is get the husband to decide which direction he wants to turn to because I feel like we're on idle and I don't like it.
I'm just craving something new..